So I know it has not been that long, but Bear gave me something to blog about today. I love that little guy! His actions today gave me something to ponder…..
We have been fighting smoggy weather for a while. If you read my last post, you will know how much I dislike it, but let me just say it again. Smog sucks – I do not like to use fowl language, but if I simply said smog stinks I would be stating more of a fact than an opinion. We miss blue sky. For those of you at home and have seen a blue sky in the past month please know that we are envious over here. Take time to appreciate the joy of throwing your head back taking a deep breath of fresh air, enjoy the sent, and soaking up the warmth of the sun on your face! We have had friends show pictures of their house back in the States and they had their Chinese co-workers ask if the sky was photo-shopped! All the crystal clear sky pictures you see in books of the major cities in China are photo-shopped.
This morning was a rather clearish morning. There was some haze, but no where near what we have now (see picture). I decided to take the kids out. We have been having some serious cabin fever around here. As it looked decent enough to play outside for a little while, we left our Newbie with ayi and seized the opportunity to burn off some energy.
Both kids were excited to be outdoors. When we got to the play area, they went wild! As a mom looking at the play equipment, I cringed. It was disgustingly dirty. Okay – so no fingers in the mouths and we can stay outside and play. Then when we get back in the kids are immediately taking off shoes (which is custom here) and pants and washing their hands until they are good and squeaky clean. Normally it is custom to remove shoes when visiting any home in China. We have certainly come accustomed to it as our shoes immediately come off when you step inside the door. Smog is why. Smog makes everything outside dirty, dusty, and nasty. You do not want it dragged through your home. It is also why ayi washes the floors every day. It is the reason why we spent a small fortune on air purifiers. There is no longer a five second rule at our house. If food hits the floor – sorry – you are out of luck.
Back to Bear! The kiddos played and played, ran and ran, and then Bear did something that I almost stopped him for. He went to play in the grass. Our apartment complex generally frowns on not keeping to the paths -there are signs posted in Chinese and English everywhere to stay off the grass. The security guard was even eyeing me pretty hard. As I was opening my mouth to say something to him…a little voice inside said, no just watch. Bear played by running around the grass, going from tree to tree – hugging each one as he went. Then he sat down and ran his fingers along it, pulling at it, feeling/remembering what it is like to simply feel grass. He was on the grass side of the play area more than he was actually on the playground. Please note this grass is grass in winter – rough, dry with very few truly green patches.
Living in the U.S., we took clean air, blue sky, and nice grass for granted. We miss the ability to go outside, take your shoes off – to feel soft, green grass between your toes, the smell of leaves in the fall, cut grass, birds chirping and singing. Sights, sounds, and smells that you do not think much about until they are gone become sorely missed.